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Remembering Paul Sylvain Sensei
by Benjamin Pincus
My teacher Paul Sylvain Sensei died in an automobile crash with
his two year old daughter, Chloe, five years ago on Memorial Day weekend. His van
hit a concrete bridge abutment at high speed just when his life seemed so clear: he
had a new dojo, a loving wife and three beautiful children. He died in
flames, which adds to the myth when I recall his fiery focus and intensity. But more
than that, I remember someone who transformed my life, who had a heart (and
forearms) so big that sometimes, when he made himself vulnerable, it seemed like he
could embrace the universe.
He was a great man made human by
his contradictions: a graceful weightlifter and ex-football player who believed that
he was clumsy, a Buddhist scholar turned dad and aikido Sensei. He loved sports,
especially basketball, yet spoke passionately about politics and the poetry of
William Blake. He was so clear and definite on the mat, but hid his shyness and
fear behind a cold-eyed stare, especially around people he did not trust.
He was possibly the first official American Aikido Shihan (awarded
posthumously) and 6th dan in aikido, and Shihan and 7th dan in
Muso Shinden Ryu iaido. He had so many accomplishments, a big, arrogant man
who often felt small and inadequate.
At first, I found these contradictions and his arrogance difficult to swallow,
and I almost left his dojo. But over the years I learned to love him with
dedication and a deep sense of trust. He was a great teacher because of his
contradictions, and his ability to create a wonderful aikido community precisely
because he needed this stability. I miss grabbing his giant wrists, his technical
precision, and his fire. But most importantly, I miss his presence and his ability
to transmit his vision of aikido with humor, love and grace. I wrote the following
article shortly after he died. I could think of so many things to say about Sylvain
Sensei five years after the accident, yet this piece was directly from my heart, and
that is perhaps the most important thing. Benjamin Pincus, 2001
What they undertook to do
They brought to pass;
All things hang like a drop of dew
Upon a blade of grass.
W.B. Yeats, "Gratitude to the Unknown Instructors"
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