How It's Supposed to Work
by Jonathan Trigaux
"It is better to have some unhappiness when one is still young, for if a person
does not experience some bitterness he will not settle down."
From the seventeenth-century Samurai manual Hagakure
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I have a relatively large family, mostly attributed to various second marriages
and their subsequent children. Thanks to this fallout of my nuclear family, I
was an uncle at the age of five, and am currently the sixth of nine collective
children, some of whom I have never even met. As one might guess from this, I am
not particularly close with the members of my family. While I enjoyed a somewhat
anonymous upbringing that encouraged self-sufficiency and independence, paternal
mandates did not allow for participation in heavy contact sports or martial arts
as a small lad such as myself would be easily injured.
At twenty-one I began taking aikido classes at our beloved dojo, Aikido of
Champlain Valley. Aikido was like nothing else in which I had ever participated,
or even conceptualized. Moving out of the way when attacked? Not getting hit?
Whoa! Confl |